Safety: what both sides should watch for

Before first contact

A verified profile has confirmed its phone number by one-time code. That proves the person controls the number — no more, no less. It is a good first filter, not an ID check.

Profiles marked "captured from another site" were not created here. They link to their source and are not indexed by search engines. Only the person concerned knows whether the details are correct — and they can claim or remove the profile at any time.

During contact

• Settle the terms first: duration, place, price, what is included. What stays unclear on the phone does not get clearer in person.
• Never pay in advance by voucher, crypto or transfer to a stranger. Being asked to is the most common scam pattern in this field.
• Anyone who pressures, rushes or dodges questions is not worth it.

Boundaries

An agreement is not a blank cheque. Either side may stop at any time, even after payment. Not accepting that is a criminal offence, regardless of what was agreed beforehand.

Reporting

Every profile has a report button, no account needed. Indications of a minor or of coercion do not go into normal moderation but into a separate queue and are reviewed immediately. When in doubt, report.

If you suspect trafficking or coercion is happening now: call the police. In Germany that is 110; the nationwide support line for violence against women is 116 016, free, around the clock, in 18 languages.